Tip#643: Believe in Second Chances - Before Sunset

I just had a really great week because of the joy I felt helping several entrepreneurs with what I call my Sizzle Factor Assessment. It is a formula I developed to help business owners and professionals identify and communicate their greatness. And for those going through mid-life transitions it helps them re-discover and reboot their passion and purpose in life. It gives them a second chance. See details: Sizzle Factor Assessment

Synchronistically this week I was drawn to seeing a film that represents second chances called Before Sunset. It explores the sizzle factor between two people that is still alive even after many years. That can be a mirror for identifying your own sizzle factor of whatever makes you great to others in your life and career!

Before Sunset (2004)

The romantic film Before Sunset is a sequel to Before Sunrise (1995) and is about Jesse (Ethan Hawke) and Celine (Julie Delpy) reconnecting in Paris after nine years since they first met on a train to Vienna. The dialogue feels so authentic and chemistry so natural between the two leads that it seems like you are watching a documentary. See: movie trailer

The making of this film is inspiring because both lead actors wrote most of their own dialogue bringing in their own life experiences. For example Delpy also loves to write songs so she performed three for the movie soundtrack as well as performing one for Jesse. There are also many beautiful, long tracking shots through Paris with the longest being 11 minutes. And what added more to the realism of the film is that it unfolds in real time. Plus it was shot nine years after the first film which is the same time that passed since the couple saw each other.

The story also inspires because it offers the optimistic idea that we can all get a second chance at something meaningful to us whether it be in relationships or following a dream or goal after the first time failed to manifest.

Be inspired by stories in the movies and in real life where people get second chances to make a dream come true. Believe that whatever you wished for in the past may be waiting for you to unearth it. Getting a second chance doesn’t just happen in the movies, it can happen to you anytime. Maybe even today!

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Tip#642: Life Lessons in Your Favourite Movies, Part 1 - The Croods

Yesterday was March 26th and I had such a good day. The morning started out fantastic with my favourite vanilla bean latte and the feeling of spring shining outside my windows. I had many tasks to start and everything just flowed so easily like melting butter on a super hot baked potato (which I had for lunch!).

I have been feeling a positive, new shift in my life and career recently and it reminded of how adversities in the past 3 years (see tip#400) helped me transform my mindset for more indestructible optimism.

My favourite movies like Groundhog Day and Peaceful Warrior helped remind me to keep developing a positive attitude because there was always something new to learn. There is a reason why you have movies you watch over and over again that is more than entertainment. They can help you become a better, stronger person!

The Croods (2013)

The 3D animated comedy adventure The Croods is about the world’s first prehistoric family forced out of the safety of their cave for an incredible adventure of discovery. This is a wondrously entertaining film, visually stunning and colourful in every scene with hilarious characters voiced by Nicolas Cage, Emma Stone, Ryan Reynolds and Cloris Leachman. See: movie trailer

The motivational and inspirational aspects of the movie took me by surprise because it is so rich and overflowing with key life lessons that I feel this could be my new top favourite motivational movie to recommend. It’s a bold thing to say and yet it really moved me on so many levels. For example the father Grug (Nicholas Cage) is extremely pessimistic and yet, despite his pain to change his attitude and beliefs, he learns to transform his mindset for the greater good of his family.

Life Lessons from The Croods:

• Transforming a negative mindset into a positive one
• Adapting to change
• Teamwork
• Identifying your strengths
• Try something new
• Take risks
• Pessimism versus Optimism
• Survival mindset versus Thriving mindset
• Creative solutions and brainstorming ideas
• Healing family relationships

There was a scene with the father Grug that brought me to tears. It reminded me of my own Dad who passed away back in 2000. It even felt like my Dad spoke directly to me through Grug! I could actually feel the presence of my Dad in the theatre. This experience while seeing this amazing film just added to my amazing day!

After the screening I sent an email to my Mom of what a great day I had. My Mom replied and reminded me that it was actually my Dad’s birthday! I suddenly felt this incredible wave of realization that my Dad’s spirit did lead me to the film and that he was right beside me watching this wondrous, uplifting movie with me. I already felt this was an important film and seeing it on his birthday just confirmed it on a magical, emotional level!

There are some movies that just entertain and some that are also filled with empowering life lessons. Find movies that you resonate with and allow the movie heroes to mirror your own strengths and skills. Films can inspire you to transform your mindset so that you can face and overcome any adversity in your life, career or business. Watch one of your favourite movies today!

Related Tips:
Tip#642: Life Lessons in Your Favourite Movies, Part 1 - The Croods
Tip#701: Life Lessons in Your Favourite Movies, Part 2 - About Time 
Tip#901: Life Lessons in Your Favourite Movies, Part 3 - A Home of Our Own  
Tip#951: Life Lessons in Your Favourite Movies, Part 4 – Learnography’s Brunchography – Freedom Writers 



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Tip#641: Express Your Buried Feelings - As it is in Heaven

It’s now a week after I attended The Mastery of Self Expression workshop as an observer (see Tip#639) and I already had a breakthrough expressing buried feelings to a close family member. The Mastery workshop reminded me of the importance to express AND release key feelings like LOVE, ANGER and NEED. If not released these energies, over time, start to do damage within the cells of the body and mind. And just being conscious of this information is a positive step forward for anyone wanting positive change.

As it is in Heaven (2004)

The Swedish drama, As it is in Heaven is about a successful international conductor named Daniel Daréus (Michael Nyqvist) who experiences a heart attack and returns to his childhood village. There he faces painful childhood memories while positively affecting the church choir he agrees to conduct and train. Through the power of singing and personal self-expression techniques, Daniel helps each individual break free of themselves. They, in turn, help him heal. See: movie trailer

One by one members of the choir learn to express years of buried feelings with one another or with family members. In the process they become happier individuals and a stronger, joyful choir singing beautifully together. Daniel even writes a special song for a specific woman to sing that empowers her to face an abusive husband. This film inspires by showing how therapeutic and cathartic singing and self-expression can be!

If you are feeling terminally stuck in your life or career it may be time to explore unresolved issues from your past. Identifying these issues and then learning to express and release old feelings is a big step towards positive change. It takes courage to look into the darkness so remember you are not alone. Movie heroes can help inspire you to find your inner strengths!

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Tip#640: Re-ignite Your Passion – The Incredible Burt Wonderstone

An unexpected life or career obstacle is always a gift if you choose to see it as an opportunity for self-growth. And movies, even a comedy, can help inspire you to persevere and gain insights of what you need to do next to move forward. Plus you get to have a good laugh to shake off some stress!

The Incredible Burt Wonderstone (2013)

The comedy The Incredible Burt Wonderstone is about the lifelong friendship of two magicians, Burt Wonderstone (Steve Carell) and Anton Marvelton (Steve Buscemi), a successful Las Vegas magic act faced with a competitive street magician named Steve Gray (Jim Carrey). There are lots of laughs in this film as well as some over-the-top Las Vegas show hairdos and costumes!

One of the key motivational aspects of this film is that after years of performing the same magic show every day Wonderstone had lost his passion. He is helped to recognize this when he meets the same magician that inspired him as a child named Rance Holloway (Alan Arkin). With Holloway’s guidance Wonderstone re-ignited his love for magic even if he was performing at a senior’s home or a kid's birthday party.

This movie will inspire you to:
• Re-ignite passion
• Adapt to change
• Develop supportive relationships

If you are feeling stuck in your life or career see it as an opportunity to recognize whether or not the feel good energy of your passion is flowing. Passion is your fuel to enjoying the work you do and for accomplishing tasks and goals. Make sure you are brimming with this fuel and you’ll bring conscious joy into your day every day!

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Tip#639: Believe in Synchronicity, Pt. 3 – Grand Canyon

"In a time when our cities are wounded, movies like Grand Canyon can help to heal." 
Roger Ebert 

I am currently attending the latest Mastery of Self Expression weekend workshop here in Toronto. This is the most powerful personal development workshop I have experienced and as a graduate I can attend as an assistant or an observer. This time I am an observer and I still receive amazing revelations and personal epiphanies to move forward in certain areas of my life and career.

A big part of these epiphanies come from the heightened synchronicities that always happen at a Mastery workshop. From new and familiar Mastery Grads I meet to the participants and the facilitators Larry Gilman and Tammy Cunningham, I would receive a magical message that is an answer to a question I really needed. Synchronicity is an amazing phenomenon when you allow it to flow into your life!

Grand Canyon (1991)

The drama Grand Canyon is about random events that affect a group of diverse characters intertwining in Los Angeles. The story chronicles how each person is helped in some miraculous way from life-changing events. The film stars Kevin Kline, Mary McDonnell, Danny Glover, Mary-Louise Parker and Steve Martin. See: movie trailer

I got a chill up my spine when I saw the movie trailer for the first time recently and that’s what prompted me to see this film. Even though this movie was released in 1991 it was synchronistic timing that I see it now. It had answers for me. If you are compelled to see this movie after seeing the trailer then synchronicity is already in play in your life to answer a question you may have.

Synchronicity is defined as a meaningful coincidence of two or more events, where something other than the probability of chance is involved. Be open to the signs that lead you to people or even movie tips presenting solutions to challenges you are having right now. Then recognize the patterns unfold magically right in front of you!

Related Tips:
Tip#13: Believe In Synchronicity, Pt.1 - 4 Movie Tips
Tip#554: Believe in Synchronicity, Pt.2 – Jeff, Who Lives at Home – Touch TV Series
Tip#639: Believe in Synchronicity, Pt. 3 – Grand Canyon
Tip#800: Believe In Synchronicity, Pt.4 - Birdman or (The Unexpected Virtue of Ignorance)

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Tip#638: Praying, Faith & Indestructible Optimism - Unconditional

Please note that I am not a religious man but I am very spiritual. So when I say that I pray and thank God on a regular basis it’s because I’ve developed a loving relationship with a force I believe is very real in my life. Recently, I slipped into a momentary feeling of hopelessness and despair over a personal situation and prayed to God for help.

I even prayed to my Dad who passed away years ago. Within a day, as I was walking along a street, I found a shiny dime and felt a warm rush flow over me. As I’ve written before, whenever I find a dime in public it is a divine sign that my Dad’s spirit is with me (Tip#145 and Tip#313). I felt my faith and optimism rise at that beautiful moment. At the same time I believe God led me to see a new movie that touched my heart and transformed by state of mind.

Unconditional (2012)

The drama Unconditional is about a children’s book writer and illustrator named Samantha Crawford (Lynn Collins) struggling with the death of her husband. The film is also based on the story of Joe Bradford (Michael Ealy) who helped underprivileged children despite having a painful kidney disease. These two were childhood friends who find each other again and help one another persevere. See: movie trailer

The life lessons in this movie were powerful reminders I had prayed for and I had a good cathartic cry at the end. I could feel the tears releasing the heaviness inside me and re-activate my indestructible optimism once again. And though this is referred to as a Christian film it never feels preachy about God. All the performances, especially the kids, are amazing and heartfelt. If you are feeling hopelessness and despair I highly recommend this as your movie prescription.

Dark times can sometimes hide your own indestructible optimism. If praying helps you through then pray. If you are led to seeing a movie be open to the life lessons it will give you. Do whatever it takes to re-activate your faith and optimism! You can do it!

Related Tips (Shiny Dimes Stories):
Tip#145: Believe in the Impossible - Ghost
Tip#313: Believe In Magic During The Holidays - The Family Stone
Tip#638: Praying, Faith & Indestructible Optimism - Unconditional 
Tip#714: Praying, Faith & Indestructible Optimism, Part 2 - It’s a Wonderful Life, Colorized 
Tip#665: Your Greatness, Purpose & Focus – Man of Steel
Tip#740: The Timeless Love of a Dad, Dog & Son - Mr. Peabody & Sherman

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Tip#637: I Believe in You, Pt. 3 - Oz the Great and Powerful

“You are capable of more than you know.” 
Oz the Great and Powerful (2013) 

A great quote to remember when you are feeling stuck in life is “You’ll see it when you believe it” by Wayne Dyer. This statement can help transform your mindset when you are feeling anxious, hopeless or stressed. And when someone tells you “I believe in you” it can lift your spirits even higher!

Movies always help remind me about the power of believing whenever I feel stuck, especially films that may have received negative reviews. I do my best not to read reviews before seeing a movie I am drawn to. I just trust my gut, intuition and my heart that I will enjoy the film.

Oz the Great and Powerful (2013)

The fantasy adventure Oz the Great and Powerful is a prequel to the classic 1939 film The Wizard of Oz telling the story of how a small-time circus magician named Oscar Diggs (James Franco) becomes the Wizard. He is a man with dubious ethics who is hurled into the land of Oz where he meets three witches (Mila Kunis, Rachel Weisz, Michelle Williams) that believe he is there to fulfill a prophecy to save the land from the wicked witch. See: movie trailer

This is one of those magical films I saw just when I needed a motivational reminder in my life. I was inspired to see Oscar transform his self-doubts of himself into enthusiastic, contagious confidence. He was also helped by Glinda the good witch (Williams) when she continually tells him that she believed in his potential. These and many other life lessons for young and old are told within a colourful, imaginative world of vibrant scenery and characters. This movie will remind you the impossible can be possible as long as you believe!

It is sometimes difficult to see a brighter future when the present appears dark and hopeless. Just remember you can re-activate your optimism by first CHOOSING to believe something positive can happen. And surround yourself with people who believe in your inner strengths and potential. You have the ability to get through anything! I BELIEVE in you!

RELATED TIPS:
Tip#128: I Believe In You, Pt.1 - The Matrix
Tip#129: I Believe In You, Pt.2 - Contact
Tip#637: I Believe in You, Pt.3 - Oz the Great and Powerful
Tip#793: I Believe in You, Pt.4 - Begin Again
Tip#609: Believe in Yourself – ParaNorman
Tip#696: Find People Who Believe What You Believe – The Way Way Back

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Tip#636: Your Greatness is Already Recognized - Searching for Sugar Man

Did you ever create or accomplish something you felt was great but was not recognized at the time? I’ve discovered a documentary that will fill you with overflowing hope that your efforts and work in the past may already be making a positive impact with someone around the world without you knowing it!

Every movie article I post on this blog feels like it is one of the greatest piece of writings I’ve ever done. Sometimes I never receive any responses to a posting and wonder if anyone had read the piece. And then, thanks to the global reach of the internet, I would receive heartfelt thanks from readers within days, months and even years later!

If you need a huge boost in believing anything is possible for getting overdue recognition of your gifts, talents and skills you must check out the Oscar winning film called Searching for Sugar Man.

Searching for Sugar Man (2012)

The documentary Searching for Sugar Man is about two fans of a 1970’s American musician known only as Rodriguez and are searching to find out if he was still alive or why he disappeared. Amazingly, the music of Rodriguez was more popular than Elvis or the Rolling Stones where they lived in South Africa but never took off in the United States.

That’s all I’m going to write because the less you know the more powerful this film will be in filling you with hope and a feel good optimism! Just go on a journey with these two fans as they discover revelations of their musical hero. You will also discover many life lessons to inspire you.

If you feel you never got the recognition you felt you deserved for something meaningful you did in the past then trust that you already made a difference in someone’s life. Believe your efforts, hard work and greatness are already impacting people right now!

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Tip#635: Put Adventure into Your Life & Career – Jack the Giant Slayer

If you’ve been reading this movie blog for the past 6 years you know that I’ve been documenting the ups and downs of my mid-life career transitions. And though there have been some extreme lows it's been an incredible adventure. And that’s because I chose to see all my unexpected life changes as an adventure!

What has helped make my journey fun are the relationships I cultivated along the way. One example is professional journalist Vickie Elmer who has contributed to The Washington Post, Newsday, The New York Times and Fortune Magazine. She had featured my movie blog in The Washington Post and then I later connected with her via LinkedIn. It was a thrill to be in the Post and equally thrilling to stay in contact with the journalist who saw my blog as a helpful career resource!

Over time we helped each other in various ways. Vickie encouraged me during some career challenges and I was happy to contribute film tips for career growth for her own blog called WorkingKind. Helping one another is what makes life a fun adventure!

See her latest article:
After the Oscars, Turn on Movies to Motivate Careers and Lives
See previous article:
Need Inspiration? Try One of These 10 Job Seeker Movies

Jack the Giant Slayer (2013)

The fantasy adventure film Jack the Giant Slayer is a re-imagining of the classic fairy tale Jack and the Beanstalk. Farm boy Jack (Nicholas Hoult) grew up fascinated with the legend of living giants and eventually discovers they are real when he goes to rescue Princess Isabelle (Eleanor Tomlinson) taken high into the land of giants by a magic beanstalk.

I have read several reviews on this film and many agree that the trailers do not show how much fun this movie really is! And I agree, you have to go and experience this adventure yourself especially in IMAX 3D. All the actors seem to be having so much fun like Ewan McGregor, Stanley Tucci and even Bill Nighy who voices the amazing CGI giant General Fallon. Most of all Jack and Princess Isabelle will give you the important life lesson of putting adventure into your life.

Life and career transitions can be daunting and overwhelming at times. Those are the moments when you must choose how you are going to deal with these situations. Choose to see it as an adventure! Inject some fun into your challenges. And when you do you will find supportive people eager to be part of your journey!

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Tip#634: You Gotta Get Up – Ben Affleck’s Career Resurrection - Argo

“It doesn’t matter how you get knocked down in life because that’s gonna happen. All that matters is that you gotta get up.”
Ben Affleck, acceptance speech for Argo’s Best Picture Oscar

Ben Affleck is a success story for career resurrection. 15 years ago he won an Oscar for the screenplay for Good Will Hunting co-written with his friend Matt Damon. And then after appearing in lead roles in popular hits such as Armageddon and Pearl Harbor he ended up caught in a global media frenzy with his relationship with Jennifer Lopez. Their box-office bomb Gigli and other incidents would also produce negative press and public opinion about Affleck. However he would persevere, pick himself up and re-invent himself as a top Hollywood director.

Argo (2012)

The dramatic thriller Argo is based on the true story of CIA operative Tony Mendez (Ben Affleck) who led the rescue of six U.S. diplomats from Iran during the 1979 hostage crisis. Mendez’s solution came with the help from Hollywood in which a fake movie called Argo was developed to give the hostages a cover story as film-makers scouting locations in Iran.

This film inspires on many levels for staying positive when faced with impossible situations. And since Affleck was also director, co-producer and star of the Oscar winning movie it now serves as evidence that career resurrection is possible. Just like his character Mendez, Affleck demonstrated indestructible optimism in a situation that appeared hopeless.

If you are going through career challenges or a hopeless situation be inspired to know that when you feel knocked down do your best to get back up. You get to choose your attitude so choose to be positive and proactive. There are many examples of people all around you that have risen to the challenge. Become one of them today!

Related Posts:
Tip#593: Remember Your Indestructible Optimism – Argo 

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Tip#633: What Does Successful Mean to You? - Prometheus

“I want to do projects that last longer than an opening weekend… I want to make things that people remember.” George Clooney 

It is interesting to see that the business side of Hollywood judges the success of a film based on opening weekend sales. It makes sense that a movie made for millions of dollars are expected to make its money back and more but I personally see films as successful if they can be entertaining AND inspiring over years of repeat viewings.

One of the highest grossing films of 2012 was The Avengers bringing in $1.2 billion worldwide and yet was not nominated for Best Picture at the 85th Academy Awards. Then there are lower grossing films predicted to win Best Picture such as Lincoln ($235 million) and Argo ($204 million). So in the end what is the definition of a successful movie to you?

Here’s one example of a film I’ve enjoyed many times despite problems I had with the script, certain characters and an unsatisfying ending…

Prometheus (2012)

The science fiction film Prometheus is director Ridley Scott’s prequel to the events that occurred in his highly successful 1979 film Alien. The story is set in the late 21st Century where the crew of the spaceship Prometheus travels to a distant planet to discover the originals of humanity. Once there they encounter deadly aliens that first infiltrate a human host and gestate within.

Why do I classify this film as successful if I had problems with the script, characters and an unsatisfying ending? It is simply because I loved the visual texture of the film and the stunning scenes filled with cool technologies and spaceships. It stimulates my imagination every time I see this movie. It may not have come close to being nominated for Best Picture but in my mind it is a winner for the entertainment value.

In 2012 there were several box-office bombs that I thoroughly enjoyed and have already seen many times such as Big Miracle, John Carter, Cloud Atlas and Rise of the Guardians. And despite it’s classification as failures and the overwhelming negative reviews I still define these films as a success because they are entertaining AND helped motivate me to make my life better in some way.

It comes down to personal taste and an emotional connection that can define the success of a film. Let your own heart and mind decide what success is for you whether it be a film or something in your life and career. Feel what success means to you and celebrate that feeling today!

Related tips:
Tip#551: Activate Your Imagination Through Movies - Prometheus 

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Tip#632: Be Inspired by Down-To-Earth Superstars - Beyoncé: Life Is But a Dream

Sometimes it is hard to feel we can attain big dreams because when we see superstars like successful actors, musicians or athletes they seem beyond human. Sometimes these celebrities project such a fantastic image that it seems unreal or not attainable in your own life. And yet they are human. And if you can change your mindset they can inspire you to envision an exciting life and career for yourself!

Beyoncé: Life Is But a Dream (2013)

The HBO documentary Beyoncé: Life Is But a Dream is a look into the personal life and music of singer Beyoncé Knowles. This film features exciting concert footage as well as very personal videos she took during difficult times such as a miscarriage and hiding her pregnancy from the public. Beyoncé reveals a very down-to-earth human side to herself throughout the documentary. See: movie trailer

Beyoncé shows a very strong, resilient personality as she learned how to stand her ground for her artistry and career decisions with her father and other people around her. Her famous husband Jay-Z also feels so down-to-earth as home videos show them dressed down together and expressing a very loving relationship. Beyoncé also shares many inspiring and empowering quotes in the film such as:

“Stop pretending I have it all together. And if I’m scared, be scared, allow it, release it, move on.”

“In my hardest moments when I thought what am I doing? I’m not strong enough for this, I can’t get through this, I’m not ready, I just have to say… jump. Because I know I’m going to land in that water and swim back on the boat.”

“I believe everything in our life, every person in our life, every relationship, everything is there for a reason. And when you really pay attention they’re certain little clues we get, it’s so crystal clear what the next step is.”

“It’s just this puzzle and everything is in its right place. And as we grow we take the next step the dots get connected and we eventually become what we’re suppose to be.”

Documentaries on successful superstars and celebrities can inspire us when they reveal a down-to-earth side to themselves. It can help your mindset embrace the idea that you too can achieve fantastic goals and very big dreams. Dream big today knowing that big success is possible for you!

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Tip#631: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 1 - Paul Williams Still Alive

Nostalgia: A sentimental longing for the past, typically for a period or place with happy personal associations.

I always receive great comfort from listening to my favourite music from the 70’s like the Electric Light Orchestra. Maybe it’s because it reminds me of simpler times in my childhood and is also my “sonic tonic” for making me feel good when I need it. Listening to music we grew up with can activate nostalgic feelings and lift us up.

There is a movie that has finally been released that I originally saw two years ago at the 2011 Toronto International Film Festival that demonstrates the power of nostalgia. I wanted to write about this amazing documentary back then but readers would not have been able to see. Now you can!

Paul Williams Still Alive (2011)

The documentary Paul Williams Still Alive is about legendary songwriter and 70’s icon Paul Williams as well as the nostalgia of the 70’s. Writer and director Stephen Kessler actually becomes part of this story after he discovers Williams is still alive and still performing his popular songs like “Rainbow Connection” from The Muppet Movie and Oscar winning “Evergreen” from A Star is Born. And there were other songs made famous by Helen Reddy, David Bowie and The Carpenters. See: movie trailer

I felt a surge of nostalgia fill my spirit as I watched this documentary overflowing with images and songs I remembered watching on TV as a child. Williams was also an actor and frequent guest on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson and many other talks shows and game shows. I wasn’t a fan of Williams back then and yet I’ve now discovered him as the creator of such great and lasting music. The documentary also inspires because Williams showed resilience and perseverance during difficult times.

If you have a favourite song list full of music from times you grew up with then see it as your personal re-energizing resource. See it as a sonic tonic that will activate nostalgic feelings and will lift your spirits when you need it. And celebrate the people responsible for creating music that is meaningful to you today! They have actually contributed to your well-being time and time again!

Related Tips:
Tip#356: Feel Good from Nostalgia - Big Trouble In Little China 
Tip#631: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 1 - Paul Williams Still Alive 
Tip#862: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 2 – Jurassic World 
Tip#891: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 3 - The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension 
Tip#935: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 4 – Logan’s Run
Tip#1019: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 5 – E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial
Tip#1023: The Uplifting Power of Nostalgia, Part 6 – Rocky Balboa & Creed - Double Feature 

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Tip#630: Learning to Love Yourself – Angel-A

With Valentine’s Day arriving tomorrow I wanted to share something very personal and appropriate that may be what you need to hear right now. For over a year and through the weekly guidance of my business coach and wellness coach I have been in a Life Detox program that includes the development of:

• Neural Reconditioning
• Creative Visualization
• Law of Attraction
• Quantum Physics
• Wellness Therapy
• Relationship with God (higher power)

My profound discovery is that all these diverse studies led to one key factor: Loving Yourself. As I learned to love myself more my life began to alter in miraculous ways. I was feeling more deserving and worthy of what I wanted in life that were not previously manifesting. This is how I met a key person who gave me a ticket to the world premiere I really wanted to attend of Cloud Atlas back in September 2012 (see tip#578). And it’s how I synchronistically connected with loving people who quickly helped me publish my first book in December 2012 after 5 years of struggle with the book (see tip#610).

There are many more inspiring examples I have documented with my coaches and will share more on this blog and my speaker presentations. For now I wanted to share the most amazing and moving scene in a film that demonstrates the key importance of self-love.

Angel-A (2005)

The French fantasy and romantic drama Angel-A is about Andre (Jamel Debbouze) who just returned to Paris hoping to change his life and stop his petty crimes. He soon meets a beautiful and mysterious woman named Angela (Rie Rasmussen) who pledges her life to do everything she can to help him. To his surprise she helps him in the most unexpected and meaningful way.

Without explaining anymore I highly recommend you see this clip from the movie. If you are moved by it then identify what the scene is saying to you. What thoughts or feelings come up for you? Is this scene mirroring something for you?

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Gandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” And he is right. If you want your external world to improve then your relationship with your inner world is where your focus is needed. Learning to love yourself more will be a new journey for you that will take time and courage. Just know that there will be loving, supportive people AND inspiring movies there to help along the way!

Related Tips:
Tip#1029: Learning to Love Yourself, Part 2 – How To Be Single 
Tip#1123: Learning to Love Yourself, Part 3 - Ralph Breaks the Internet
Tip#230: Fall In Love With Yourself - Paris Je T’aime
Tip#906: Connecting with Your Inner Child, Part 1 - Top 10 Movies 
Tip#909: Connecting with Your Inner Child, Part 2 - The Little Prince 
Tip#917: Connecting with Your Inner Child, Part 3 - Joy 
Tip#928: Connecting with Your Inner Child, Part 4 - Hector and the Search for Happiness
Tip#1010: Health & Wellness for the Holidays - Love the Coopers 
Tip#1013: How Movies Mirror Your Inner Strengths, Part 6 - PTSD - Prison Dogs


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Tip#629: Affirmations & Personal Development in the Movies – How Do You Know

I just had a massive realization that inspired me to the core of my soul! I recently went to visit my business coach and friend Patrick Bizindavyi at his home and remembered just under two years ago seeing affirmations taped to his walls of what he wanted to manifest. He was single at the time and one of his dreams was to have a family. Well now I sat there in the same home and he had a beautiful baby girl in his arms and a loving wife in the next room!

I was in joyful awe as I made his 7 month old daughter laugh with my baby voices! This was just another amazing reminder that affirmations do work and that along with having unshakeable faith any dream or goal will eventually come true. That’s why it’s important to surround yourself every day with positive statements.

How Do You Know (2010)

The romantic comedy How Do You Know is about a love triangle of characters that help each other through difficult times. Lisa (Reese Witherspoon) is a popular softball player suddenly cut from the Team USA roster while George (Paul Rudd) is an executive targeted in a federal criminal investigation. Throughout the film these characters demonstrate personal development methods and tips which is why I enjoy this film so much. And they are all very self-aware.

There is a scene where Lisa is getting emotional over being cut from the team and she is in front of her bathroom mirror. It is covered with motivational affirmations and you soon see that she is already a resilient person. The dialogue throughout is also filled with statements that can be used as affirmations and motivational quotes. For example…

“Don’t judge anybody else until you check yourself out. That way you’re lucky if it’s your fault because then you can correct the situation.”

“Never drink to feel better. Only drink to feel even better.”

“Courage is mastery of fear, not absence of fear.”

“Obstacles are what you see when you lose sight of your goal.”

“Figure out what you want and learn how to ask for it.”

“Don’t do anything half way unless you’re willing to be half happy.”

“Picture a very angry ocean, a storm and I’m on this little, tiny boat and miraculously this boat is still afloat.”

“You sure haven’t let anything take your spirit.”

“I don’t know that I’ll do great but I know I can do better!”

“I think the answer to what you’re talking about is to stop talking. Deny a voice to the thing that’s falling apart.”

“When you’re in something you’ve gotta give it everything you have or else what are you doing?”

“We are all just one small adjustment away from making our lives work.”

Daily affirmations are key to moving you forward from challenging times. It helps transform a negative mindset into a proactive mindset. Your personal growth depends on how often you focus on the positive thoughts and statements of what you want to manifest or achieve in your life. Do this right now! Surround yourself with positive affirmations today!

Related Tips:
Tip#884: Smile, Part 2 – HBO’s Clear History 
Tip#906: Connecting with Your Inner Child, Part 1 - Top 10 Movies 
Tip#1048: Activate The Power of Your Mind, Part 5 – Top 4 Movies on Reprogramming Your Life with Positive Lying 

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Tip#628: Identify Your Multiple Talents - Magic Mike

I am always amazed when I see an actor reveal an unexpected talent of theirs like Wolverine actor Hugh Jackman sing and dance while hosting the 81st Academy Awards. And there’s Gwyneth Paltrow showing off her sultry singing voice in the film Duets. I was also wowed by Anna Kendrick in Pitch Perfect when she performed the “cup song” (you just have to see it!).

The list goes on and on (hello Anne Hathaway). And I guess I am man enough to admit that my latest discovery was seeing actor Channing Tatum shake his butt real good in Magic Mike! See: movie trailer

Magic Mike (2012)

The comedy-drama Magic Mike is about Mike Lane (Channing Tatum) who introduces nineteen-year-old Adam (Alex Pettyfer) to his world of male stripping in Tampa Florida. Adam learns he has this unexpected gift for dancing and stripping and quickly joins Mike at the Xquisite Strip Club owned by Dallas (Matthew McConaughey). The story and characters were all fun and engaging and the dancing was great, especially Tatum.

The film is loosely based on the experiences of Tatum, who was an eighteen-year-old stripper before he made it big as a Hollywood actor. I first saw him in G.I. Joe: Retaliation and then was amazed at his comedic abilities in the reboot of 21 Jump Street. And now seeing his other talents as a dancer inspires me to say that this can be an inspiration to you for developing more than one skill you may have.

We all have hidden gifts, skills and talents. Be inspired by real-life examples of individuals who demonstrated their multiple talents to the world. Your hidden talents can also be skills that come so natural and easy to you that you may not realize someone would want to pay you for that skill! Today do your best to become aware at how good you are at something you can then label as YOUR talent!

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