Tip#686: Cultivate Community, Part 6 – Ip Man

Three months ago in May I gave a motivational talk to business owners and entrepreneurs at the Metro Hall Employment Services Centre, here in Toronto. That was the month I was under immense stress (see tip#660) and felt compelled to share more of my struggles as well as successes with the audience. The admissions of my failures and adversities actually triggered a closer, emotional connection with audience members who personally thanked me afterwards for sharing.

They were going their own struggles and they told me it brought them great comfort to hear my story and to receive my movie tips for staying strong and positive. I was feeling a strong sense of community as these individuals would continue to stay in touch with me via email, LinkedIn and Facebook. What a joy it was knowing there was a greater purpose in the pains in life I have experienced.

Ip Man (2008)

The semi biographical martial arts film, Ip Man, is based on the life of Ip Man (Donnie Yen), a grandmaster of the martial art Wing Chun and master of Bruce Lee. Not to be confused with the recent movie The Grandmaster (see tip#687). This film version focused more on the community of 1930’s Foshan and Ip’s struggles surviving the Japanese invasion in 1937. There are many exciting fights that include a Northern Chinese bully and later Japanese soldier matches with the Chinese. See: movie trailer

What really stood out for me in this film was the strong sense of community triggered by Ip’s values, courage and strength. He was a true leader and inspired people of his hometown despite years of poverty and doing his best to feed his wife and young son. I loved the scene where Ip Man agrees to teach Kung fu to workers of a cotton mill to protect themselves from a gang of robbers. Men, women and children young and old were all trained and they practiced with each other!

What movies inspire you about community? What films inspire you of people helping one another during difficult times? Please let me know!

Related Tips:
Tip#172: Cultivate Community, Part 1 – Witness
Tip#651: Cultivate Community, Part 2 - Defiance
Tip#656: Cultivate Community, Part 3 – Swapsity - Phenomenon 
Tip#658: Cultivate Community, Part 4 – Into the White
Tip#668: Cultivate Community, Part 5 – Be Kind Rewind 
Tip#686: Cultivate Community, Part 6 – Ip Man
Tip#687: Cultivate Community, Part 7 – Rotary Club - Groundhog Day
Tip#707: Cultivate Community, Part 8 – Movie Nights - Christmas in Connecticut
Tip#781: Cultivate Community, Part 9 - The Hundred-Foot Journey
Tip#853: Cultivate Community, Part 10 - Endurance - McFarland, USA

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Tip#685: Develop Inner Strength & Confidence – Kung fu & Qi - The Grandmaster

I grew up thinking about Kung fu as just a cool-looking fighting style from Asia. Then in my adult life I discovered Kung fu’s power lies in what traditional Chinese culture calls Qi translated as “life energy”. Ancient Chinese believed Qi permeated everything and linked their surroundings together. I believe it is this energy I have learned to tap into (even if just a little) through spiritual practices and discipline. It has helped me build an inner strength and confidence for persevering in difficult times.

The Grandmaster (2013)

The Chinese martial arts drama, The Grandmaster, is based on the life story of Ip Man (Tony Leung Chiu-Wai) who was Bruce Lee’s teacher. Starting with his life in 1930’s Foshan, the Japanese war and then Hong Kong in the 1950’s we get introduced to many vibrant characters with various Kung Fu styles. The fight scenes are so poetically staged and beautiful that they feel like ethereal dances. This is an epic cinematic experience! See: movie trailer

What inspired me the most was Ip Man’s incredible inner strength and confidence when he is faced with a fight. I could almost feel his Qi through the movie screen! Despite whatever opponents he faced he seemed to radiate an inner peace and calm like being in the eye of a hurricane. I am so grateful to the magic of movies like this one because they help expand my awareness of concepts like Kung fu and Qi to help me be a stronger person.

Are you a fan of martial arts films? Are there any movies you’d recommend that expand on the richness and wisdom of Kung fu? Please let me know!

Related Tips:
Tip#460: Find Inner Peace Thanks to a Movie - Kung Fu Panda 2 
Tip#670: See Life As An Adventure, Part 3 – The Forbidden Kingdom 

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Tip#684: Friendships in Films, Part 1 - Kick-Ass 2

I recently spent a sunny long weekend at a friend’s new cottage with my buddies I’ve been camping with for years. Super clear skies, green lush trees, crisp lake waters and great, clean outdoor air! These were the same friends from last year ((see tip#584) that helped clear the forestland for the new cottage.

It felt great putting in some hard work clearing trees and shrubs because we worked well as a team. And we’ve always been supportive of one another over the years even if it’s via email, Facebook or texts.

Kick-Ass 2 (2013)

The superhero comedy film, Kick-Ass 2, is the sequel to the comic book based film of the same name where we find Dave Lizewski a.k.a. Kick-Ass (Aaron Taylor-Johnson) has inspired other ordinary citizens to become superheroes. He then joins a team of heroes called “Justice Forever” led by Colonel Stars and Stripes (Jim Carrey). We also follow Mindy a.k.a. Hit-Girl (Chloë Grace Moretz) as she tries to let go of her superhero identity and fit into high school life. See: movie trailer

The film has lots of action and a great and different performance by Carrey. And we see how supportive these superhero friends are with each other especially when one is going through personal pain. Note that there is a lot of graphic violence and profanity in this film and yet there are also inspiring themes that immerge:

• Following your path
• Accepting who you are
• Helping others 
• Teamwork
• Friendships

What movies do you enjoy that show the kind of friendships you have now? What favorite films do you like that show friendships you'd like to have? Let me know!

Related Tips:
Tip#770: Friendships in Films, Part 2 - The Kings of Summer
Tip#545: Make Time for Face-To-Face Friendships – American Pie Reunion 
Tip#575: Friendships that Feel Good – Grown Ups 
Tip#584: Cultivate Friendships for Rain of Shine - City Slickers 
Tip#626: Perseverance & Teamwork, Part 1 – The Fugitive 
Tip#627: Perseverance & Teamwork, Part 2 - Wreck-It Ralph 

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Tip#683: Golden Nuggets in Films - Elysium

I am so grateful every single day for the old and new friendships that are in my life. Especially the new friendships I’ve made at The Gift Circle Meetup group that I featured in tip#668. I’ve experienced the joy of meeting such wonderful, supportive souls and it feels so good we have become fast friends. The monthly gatherings also continually teach myself and others on learning how to:

• Ask for what you need
• Give unconditionally
• Focus on being of service
• Cultivate friendships and community from the above 3 points

I am reminded of a powerful scene from the film Elysium you’ll read about below.

Elysium (2013)

The science fiction action film, Elysium, takes place in a future time where the poor live on a ravaged Earth and the wealthy live on a luxurious space habitat called Elysium. On Earth, factory worker and ex-con Max (Matt Damon) is exposed to radiation and takes drastic measures to get to Elysium where he can be cured and help a friend's dying daughter. The film is filled with incredible, futuristic visuals and also contain thought-provoking messages about the poor and the wealthy. See: movie trailer

This is one of those films where one scene was the focus of having inspired me more than the film itself. It was a golden nugget of inspiration. Below is the dialogue between Max and his childhood friend’s young daughter, Matilda, dying of leukemia…

Matilda: “There once lived a meerkat that lived in the jungle. He was hungry, he was small, so small. And the other big animals had all the food because they could reach the fruits. So he made friends with the hippopotamus…” 
Max: “Okay stop. It doesn’t end well for the meerkat.” 
Matilda: “Yes it does because he can stand on the hippopotamus’s back to get all the fruits that he wants.” 
Max: “What’s in it for the hippo?” 
Matilda: “The hippo wants a friend.” 

When I saw this scene it synchronistically echoed my awareness of how the power of friendship can make the ups and downs of life more enjoyable. It reminded me that friendships make my life an adventure worth taking!

Have you found golden nuggets of inspiration in a movie? What are some films that you felt were so-so containing a scene that spoke deeply to you? Please let me know!

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Tip#682: What if You Could Go Back in Time? - Back to the Future Trilogy

“Your future hasn't been written yet. No one's has. Your future is whatever you make it. So make it a good one!” Back to the Future Part 3

Jack Canfield is the co-creator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and I recently saw a video clip online of him saying how powerful EFT Therapy is. EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Technique and involves a series of tapping on meridian points of the face and upper body to release blocked energy and stored traumas. I had actually had an EFT session years ago but was feeling drawn to it again.

As I wrote in the previous tip I had experienced an epiphany about blocked areas of my life (see tip#681) and it is thanks to an EFT session I had with Certified EFT Practitioner Sue Burness. She helped me remember a focal point when I was 12 years old that created a limiting belief that got buried into my subconscious. It was an emotional realization that this old belief could be the cause of my “Groundhog Day loops”. It later excited me to think that this was like time traveling to my past self and helping him transform into something greater. I was then compelled to watch the Back to the Future trilogy back to back.

Back to the Future (1985)

The science fiction comedy, Back to the Future, is about teenager Marty McFly (Michael J. Fox) who time travels from 1985 to 1955 with the help of Doc Brown (Christopher Lloyd) and a super-powered DeLorean. He ends up meeting his father George McFly (Crispin Glover) who is in his teens and helps transform his fear into courage. This change in history then transforms Marty’s present timeline where his father is a more confident man, husband, father and successful author.

Back to the Future Part 2 (1989)

The film, Back to the Future Part 2, follows the adventures of Marty McFly and Doc Brown where they time travel from 1985 to 2015 to prevent Marty’s future son from getting into serious trouble. Timelines get altered and when Marty and Doc return to 1985 it is a dark world where the villain from the first film Biff Tannen (Thomas F. Wilson) is now powerful and wealthy. It is up to Marty and Doc to return to 1955 at the focal point where time was altered and repair the damage. Along the way Marty witnesses his past self from the first film which is amazing to see from a different perspective!

Back to the Future Part 3 (1990)

The film, Back to the Future Part 3, concludes the adventures of Marty McFly and Doc Brown who have time traveled to the old west of 1885 in order to save Doc who was sent there accidentally in the previous chapter. In that time period Marty meets his great-great-grandparents and Biff’s great-grandfather, Buford “Mad Dog” Tannen. Through Marty’s encounter with Buford he is able to overcome his issue of blindly fighting when someone calls him a coward.

Seeing this trilogy back to back was nostalgic and brought back happy memories of when I first saw these films in the theatres. I was also inspired to believe that I could, in a sense, go back in time and transform issues that stem from a focal point in my younger years. So it doesn’t matter if these are just fictional movies. All I know is that they made me feel good and helped me believe I have a positive future to look forward to!

If you can go back in time what would you say to your younger self? What would you change about your past self if you could? Please share your comments in comments section below!

NOTE: The purpose of this blog is to document my life journey and share the movies that have inspired me to persevere through difficult times. I also share personal growth resources I have discovered along the way and are meant to be options you can explore for your own personal growth if you are inspired to do so.

Related Tips:
Tip#179: Important Messages From The Kid - Disney's The Kid
Tip#332: Your Thoughts Have So Much Power – Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban
Tip#445: Everything is Going To Be Okay - Source Code 
Tip#499: Choose A Future - Mr. Nobody
Tip#506: Time Travel & Alternate Reality Movies – 4 Hidden Gems
Tip#549: Yes, You Can Alter Your Reality - Men in Black 3
Tip#587: If You Could Talk To Your Younger Self What Would You Say? – Looper
Tip#590: Expand Your Mind with Time Travel Movies, Pt.1 - The Time Traveler’s Wife
Tip#759: Expand Your Mind with Time Travel Movies, Pt 2 - X-Men: Days of Future Past
Tip#682: What if You Could Go Back in Time? - Back to the Future Trilogy
Tip#551: Activate Your Imagination Through Movies, Part 1 – Prometheus
Tip#777: Activate Your Imagination Through Movies, Part 2 - Lucy
Tip#748: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 1 - After the Dark 
Tip#772: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 2 – The Congress - Under the Skin
Tip#778: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 3 – I Origins
Tip#789: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 4 – Coherence
Tip#790: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 5 - Frequencies
Tip#803: Expand Your Mind with Science Fiction, Part 6 – Interstellar

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Tip#681: Find Motivation & Inspiration Every Day - Now You See Me

“People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily.” 
Zig Ziglar 

Early in the week I experienced personal revelations about certain “Groundhog Day” loops in my life that I needed several days to process. And though I was shaken up I remembered the Zig Ziglar quote above and took actions to maintain my positivity by laughing and finding ways to put a smile on my face. Watching movies, hanging out with good friends, meditation and swimming in my indoor pool really helped.

A fun resource I found was a greatest Vines compilation on Youtube (6 second video clips). Check it out if you want a really good laugh: Greatest Vines Compilation 2013

Now You See Me (2013)

The action thriller, Now You See Me, is about four talented illusionists know as “The Four Horsemen” who pull off a series of daring heists through Las Vegas style magic shows. Starring Jesse Eisenberg, Woody Harrelson, Isla Fisher and Dave Franco, this visually stunning film was as  entertaining as the trailer that excited me to see it in the first place. See: movie trailer

This is one of those movies that just took me away from my troubles for awhile (seen twice so far) and returned me to look at my challenges more inspired and motivated by its many themes. For me, films are a highly enjoyable resource for motivation and for re-energizing my mind and spirit:

• Goal Setting
• Creative visualizing
• Strategic thinking
• Creative marketing
• Giving back to others
• Teamwork

What do you do for daily motivation and inspiration? Do you have favourite rituals or movies that lift you up? Please let me know!

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Tip#680: Movie Performances that Affect You, Part 2 – White House Down

I am always inspired when I witness someone showing amazing courage. When I went on the EdgeWalk at the CN Tower (see tip#673) there were two women in our group that were petrified of heights. At first they were frightened to walk onto the ledge but through the encouragement of our guide and the rest of the group the women each participated in the exercises of leaning over the edge.

By the middle of the 1/2 hour tour and at a height of 365 metres with no handrails these two women had transformed and were enjoying themselves and laughing! These acts of courage AND those in the movies always inspire me to be more courageous in all areas of my life!

White House Down (2013)

The action thriller, White House Down is about John Cale (Channing Tatum) a U.S. Capitol Police officer and his young daughter Emily (Joey King) on tour at the White House when heavily armed men invade and capture President James Sawyer (Jamie Foxx). Cale is separated from his daughter and helps protect the President. See: movie trailer 

What makes this film engaging, other than the entertaining action scenes, are performances of the characters. In particular I liked Cale’s daughter Emily because she demonstrates an unexpected strength when dealing with the terrorists. There is a scene where she is face to face with an armed terrorist and although it is a frightening moment she transforms her fear into a courageous moment and looks the terrorist in the eye and says, “GET AWAY FROM ME!” Her intensity and focus was so strong I could feel it deep inside me. That moment inspired me to always have that kind of courage AND strength of will!

What movie performances have inspired courage in you? What favourite movie heroes have inspired you to be fearless? Please let me know as your film recommendations may help inspire others!

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Tip#679: Movie Performances that Affect You, Part 1 - Blue Jasmine

“Anxiety, nightmares and a nervous breakdown, there’s only so many traumas a person can withstand until they take to the streets and start screaming.” 
Blue Jasmine

This movie blog is written, in part, to share movie heroes that can help inspire and bring out your inner strengths and potential. And then there are films that feature performances of a lead that shows you an alternate, darker path when faced with a life crisis. One of these films is Blue Jasmine.

Cate Blanchett’s performance is mesmerizing as Jasmine in this movie. It was also heartbreaking and sad. I saw a tragic path I could have taken when life has hit me hard in the past. On a deeper level Blanchett’s character spoke to me of the actions and attitudes NOT to take when dealing with life, career and financial crisis. For me, that was the silver lining within the darkness of Jasmine’s story.

 Blue Jasmine (2013)

The drama film, Blue Jasmine, is written and directed by Woody Allen and is about a New York socialite named Jasmine (Cate Blanchett) going through a life crisis and moves into her sister’s modest apartment in San Francisco. Blanchett’s performance is just incredible as were other characters such as Jasmine’s sister Ginger (Sally Hawkins), Ginger’s boyfriend Chili (Bobby Cannavale) and ex-husband Augie (a surprisingly moving Andrew Dice Clay). See: movie trailer

It’s been days since I saw Blue Jasmine and I am still thinking about Blanchett’s performance and character. And the reviews I’ve read all mention that an Oscar nomination is a done deal. At this point I’m not sure why this film is still lingering in my mind. All I know is this film affected me.

If you've seen Blue Jasmine please let me know what you thought about the film. And I'd love to know how Blanchett’s performance and character affected you.

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Tip#678: What Makes You Laugh? – Part 2 - Grown-Ups 2

I wrote about the power of healing in the previous tip#677 and laughter is a highly recommended method! That’s why I can always count on getting my laugh fix from films by Adam Sandler whenever I need a boost of energy. His type of humour isn’t for everyone so I wouldn’t try to sell him to anyone! I just know that I resonate with his jokes and love seeing the cameos of big stars that show up in his movies like Al Pacino, Johnny Depp, Nicole Kidman, James Caan, Jack Nicholson and many others!

Grown-Ups 2 (2013)

The comedy, Grown-Ups 2, is the sequel to Grown-Ups where Lenny (Adam Sandler) relocates his family back to his hometown to be with his friends and their kids. Returning are Sandler’s real-life friends Kevin James, Chris Rock, David Spade and the regular roster of other friends that appear in his Happy Madison Production films. See: movie trailer

The rest of the plot doesn’t matter if you are a fan of Sandler’s films. You know what you’ll be getting: rude and crude jokes, great music from the 80’s, loads of pop culture references over the years, cameos from big movie stars AND some heart-warming lessons about friends and family. Most importantly you will have a good laugh if this type of comedy is for you!

What comedy films make you laugh? What comedians always make you laugh when you see their movies? Let me know and your recommendations may really benefit someone who needs the healing power of laughter!

Related Tips:
Tip#46: What Makes You Laugh? - Part 1 
Tip#678: What Makes You Laugh? – Part 2 - Grown-Ups 2 
Tip#697: What Makes You Laugh? – Part 3 - Russell Peters’ Notorious 
Tip#769: What Makes You Laugh? - Part 4 - They Came Together

Tip#483: Stay Light & Laugh – Paul – Bad Teacher

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Tip#677: Your Power to Heal – The Wolverine

I am loving my new condo building’s indoor heated pool! I’ve been swimming three times a week since I moved in two months ago and noticed that my whole body is looking and feeling stronger. This feels extra good because I had lost weight from the stress I wrote about this past year (see Tip#655) and now been rebuilding my body strength. Most importantly I feel I am healing from prolonged anxiety that had really pushed my limits.

And once again a movie synchronistically came along that was entertaining as well as thought-provoking about healing. I went to see The Wolverine on opening day and Hugh Jackman looked really buff and ripped! His physical shape was inspiring as was how he deals with losing his superpowers. Wolverine’s power is rapid regenerative healing which, for the first time in the film series, is taken away from him.

The Wolverine (2013)

The movie, The Wolverine, is the sixth installment in the X-Men film series following the events of X-Men: The Last Stand. Logan a.k.a. Wolverine (Hugh Jackman) is in emotional pain after killing the woman he loved (Famke Janssen) when he is summoned to Japan by a dying soldier he saved during the bombing of Nagasaki. He is then drawn into a feud between a wealthy family and Yakuza assassins and ninjas. He also faces a super villain named Viper (Svetlana Khodchenkova) with the help of a deadly assassin named Yukio (Rila Fukushima). See: movie trailer

Soon Wolverine’s rapid healing powers are taken away and he must deal with bullets and cuts having the potential to end his immortal life. For the first time he must learn to rely on others for help. These lessons permeate a film filled with exciting battles and a unique flavor for a superhero film as it will immerse you into the Japanese culture. And you get to see how Logan heals his past emotional pain as well as the physical pains he endures. For me Wolverine, once again, is a great cinematic role model for staying strong in difficult times and persevering physically, mentally and emotionally!

Are you healing from something that happened to you recently or years ago? Do you have favourite movies that help you stay positive? Please let me know. Your recommendations may help others in their own healing process.

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Tip#676: Life & Work Lessons from Movies – The Internship

At a recent social event I met a retired CEO who said he really enjoyed the film The Internship and I thought, “Really? That movie about two middle aged guys trying to get an internship at Google? The film that was also trashed by film critics and also criticized for being one giant Google ad? The movie that was also considered a box-office bomb?”

What intrigued me was if a retired CEO in his 60’s found value in this kind of movie then I would trust him and just see it for myself. And I’m glad I did because I was really entertained, inspired, educated and found many motivational quotes in it!

“I don’t know even know what happens to a dream deferred. Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun or does it explode? I don’t want to find out.” 

“I’ve seen the future and it’s beautiful for us!” 

“I want to do something that matters. I want to have a life that I’m excited about and that’s great!” 

The Internship (2013)

The comedy, The Internship, is about Billy McMahon (Vince Vaughn) and Nick Campbell (Owen Wilson) applying for an internship at the Google company after being laid off from their salesman jobs. Being twice the age of their fellow interns does appear strange at first and so hilarious scenes do unfold. Despite the generation gap between these two and the other interns in their early 20’s they each learn to work together as a team and embrace the values each generation has to offer. See: movie trailer

Other than the theme of teamwork, many other life and work lessons come up like balancing time with online technology and with living life. There are also sales and marketing tips for business owners on the benefits of social media to build their businesses. In the end I was inspired by the themes of perseverance, communicating with one another, life/work balance and of following a dream no matter what age you are!

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Tip#675: See it. Feel it. Trust it. - Seven Days in Utopia

The highest I was paid for an illustration was $15,000.00. It was during a time when I had a successful illustration and communications company and that job was the vision I had for my life at the time. Today I still have friends and fans insisting that I go back to this profession. And yet I just don't see it or feel it. It is not the vision I have for myself right now which involves this movie blog and my book Movies for Motivation.

I was recently recommended a movie to see and discovered several powerful quotes from the film that told me what I needed to hear to move forward.

“The toughest challenge you’ll face isn’t the golf course or even your competitors score it’s that casual comment offered by someone, anyone about how you should be doing it. If you don’t have conviction about what your foundation is, that off handed comment will take you out of your game and erode your confidence! You got that?” 

“See it. Feel it. Trust it.” 

Seven Days in Utopia (2011)

The drama sports film, Seven Days in Utopia, is about a young golfer named Luke Chisholm (Lucas Black) who experiences a disastrous debut on the pro circuit. He is then coached into transforming his attitude and life by an eccentric rancher Johnny Crawford (Robert Duvall). This film is so much more than golf and is filled with many inspirational, spiritual and motivational tips to apply to your own life and career challenges. See: movie trailer

The messages in this film reminded me of all the lessons I’ve learned over the years of what I did unconsciously in my previous business as an illustrator. I just need to continue applying these lessons consciously each and every day. And when I see movie heroes who rise up from disastrous situations and achieve their dreams and goals I am empowered to do the same! It doesn’t matter if it’s about sports, business or every day life, these cinematic role models all have the power to inspire anyone.

What movie heroes have lessons that inspired you? Please let me know!

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© Emmanuel Lopez 2013

Tip#674: Riding the Ups & Downs of Life - Before Midnight

I am coming down from my high of a fantastic week of celebrating my birthday with great friends and family. And I realize that midlife+ birthdays can be a downer if I let it so I am focusing on the high I felt standing at the height of 365 metres on the CN Tower EdgeWalk (see tip#673)! I felt like a kid on Christmas day! Life was thrilling in that moment and I felt the joy of sharing it with close friends that have been with me for 18 years. We’ve been together through thick and thin, rain or shine and the ups and downs of life.

Before Midnight (2013)

The romantic drama, Before Midnight, is the third chapter following Before Sunrise (1995) and Before Sunset (2004). It is 18 years since Jesse (Ethan Hawke) and Celine (Julie Delpy) first met and they are assessing midlife together while on a vacation in Greece. Once again, as in the previous two films, the dialogue and performances are outstanding, realistic and very magnetic to watch. See: movie trailer

There is a dinner scene that is very engaging and entertaining while at the same time filled with insights about relationships between men and women. And, as with the previous films, there are long one shot takes of the conversations. It was amazing to learn from the filmmakers that there is no improvisation in the movie and that all the dialogue was written and rehearsed for perfect deliveries.

Despite more expressions of anger and unhappiness in this film there is still a strong sense of play and optimism. Jesse and Celine are riding the ups and downs of life. And there is the added element that the filmmakers actually depict the passage of time with the characters reconnecting 9 years since the last movie which was exactly the same 9 years in real life!

Are there any films that reflect the ups and downs of your life? Please let me know. Your recommendations may inspire others!

Related tips:
Tip#643: Believe in Second Chances - Before Sunset 

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© Emmanuel Lopez 2013

Tip#673: Be Open to Big Surprises – Pacific Rim

I have had a fantastic and memorable birthday week. And yet at first only one friend was available for a birthday dinner on the actually date but another friend told me “be open to big surprises!” I remained open and six other friends showed up at the last minute to a great restaurant called Fare Game Continental Cuisine! I was so happy! The wild game menu included Ostrich, Wild Boar, Venison, Duck, Lamb and Rabbit! Absolutely delicious! See photos: Facebook 

And then that same friend surprised me by taking me to the opening day screening of Pacific Rim. It was a thrill and also got to see my friend’s joy at his first IMAX 3D experience! The next day another friend made me wear a blindfold and earplugs and took me to his surprise gift for me. It was doing the EdgeWalk at the CN Tower!

It was a bright, sunny day standing high over Toronto with good friends. I actually felt no fear standing, with no handrails, at a height of 365 metres. I only felt my heart filled with excitement and an overflowing joy to be alive! Surprises can be so good!

Pacific Rim (2013)

The science fiction action film, Pacific Rim, is set in the future where humanity unites to build gigantic robots called Jaegers to battle colossal monsters invading Earth. This highly entertaining movie is filled with awe-inspiring scenes of these towering mechanical creations and alien creatures as well as great human characters you can cheer for. See: movie trailer

This film really represents big surprises as the scale of these monsters and robots are absolutely enormous. And at the same time there are small, unexpected moments that made me smile. Plus there are many motivational messages about teamwork and solving challenges together. Here’s a quote…

“Today at the edge of our hope, at the end of our time. We have chosen not only to believe in ourselves, we have chosen to believe in each other! Today there’s not a man nor woman in here that shall stand alone. Today we face the monsters that are at our door, today we are cancelling the apocalypse!” 

Have you ever had a big surprise that made you so happy? Do you have any movies that were a big surprise for you? A good surprise? Please let me know!

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© Emmanuel Lopez 2013

Tip#672: Movement is Life – World War Z

Today is my birthday and it comes just days after the most incredible rainstorm and city flooding I have ever experienced in Toronto. People’s cars were stuck underwater and passengers were rescued from Go Trains with life rafts. Areas of the TTC subway system were flooded keeping thousands of people, such as myself, stuck in trying to get home. See amazing photos: National Post

Today I'd rather celebrate the mindset of persevering and moving forward because that’s how I got home. Every route I took got blocked while on streetcars or subways so I walked when needed in the pouring rain. I just kept moving forward and hours later I got home and was grateful despite the power being off in the entire neighborhood. This was a mirror for what I’ve learned in life and that is to keep moving forward rather then giving up when things looked hopeless.

World War Z (2013)

The apocalyptic horror movie, World War Z is about Gerry Lane (Brad Pitt), a former United Nations investigator, who must travel the world to find a solution to stop a horrifying zombie pandemic. The story shows how resilient Gerry is as he thinks quickly to constantly protect his family and others around from overwhelming numbers of fast moving zombies. See: movie trailer

There is a line in the film that Gerry says that is the key to surviving, “Movement is life.” He was basically saying that if you want to live you better keep moving and not give up. It’s an inspirational message and it's a mindset I do my best to remember every time I face adversities. Everything eventually ends up being okay.

What movie heroes inspire you with their perseverance and positive mindsets? I would love to hear what films you resonate with!

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B) Re-energize & Release 
C) Insights, Epiphanies & AHA moments 

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© Emmanuel Lopez 2013

Tip#671: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 1 - Stories We Tell

I have several close friends (one adopted) who have amazing stories of how they searched for and reconnected with their biological parents. The details of their journeys were so magical and even miraculous. One friend was actually inspired by other people’s stories of finding their real parents. And now their stories, in turn, inspire others (including me!) that seemingly impossible goals can be achieved.

 Stories We Tell (2012)

The documentary, Stories We Tell, unravels the myths and truth of the parents of director and actress Sarah Polley, including a surprising revelation within the family. What is fascinating is that each family member and everyone who was involved gets a chance to tell their side of the story. Polley’s mother’s story is told via photos, home movie footage and re-enacted scenes. See: movie trailer

I highly recommend you just see this intriguing film without knowing anymore. I knew very little about this film going in other then the rave reviews it received. The movie unexpectedly swept me away by the storytelling of everyone involved AND how unique the structure of the narrative that unraveling. In the end I was deeply inspired by Polley’s courage and amazing vision of telling such a personal story.

Have you been inspired by a story recently? Have you seen a documentary with a story that motivated you somehow? Let me know because if you share your story in the comments section below it could inspire someone reading it!

Related Tips:
Tip#671: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 1 - Stories We Tell
Tip#750: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 2 - Heaven is for Real
Tip#791: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 3 - Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story
Tip#815: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 4 – Star in the Night
Tip#816: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 5 – Unbroken
Tip#817: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 6 – The Imitation Game
Tip#818: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 7 – Big Eyes
Tip#1003: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 8 - Hacksaw Ridge
Tip#1022: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 9 – Hidden Figures 
Tip#1025: Be Inspired by Amazing True Stories, Part 10 - Lion

Remember How Movies Can Help You: 
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B) Re-energize & Release 
C) Insights, Epiphanies & AHA moments 

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© Emmanuel Lopez 2013