There was once a time when I felt very low energy and a lack of enthusiasm for over a week. I had already done most of the things I knew to lift myself up like treat myself to favourite movies, chocolate and delicious foods. These methods certainly helped but I needed something else and couldn't remember what.
Deuce Bigalow, European Gigolo (2005)
Soon after, a good friend of mine insisted I come over to his place and sat me in front of his new high definition television as if he had the magic answer. Of all the movies he could have chosen to show he picked Deuce Bigalow, European Gigolo
My friend did know the secret to lifting me up and it was to make me laugh.
I remembered the feeling inside me as I laughed. Something surged through my blood, transforming this heavy energy inside me to something much lighter. The cloudiness and lethargy I was in quickly dissipated as the physical act of laughing put me into a new state of mind. I felt good again!
After I analyzed my situation I remembered that laughter stimulates positive brain chemicals like serotonin and dopamine. It also stimulates the body's secretion of endorphins. These are the body's natural painkillers and they produce a general sense of well-being. I have written before that endorphins are also connected to chocolate (see tip#27). Medical studies have shown that a good belly laugh can also reduce stress hormones, decrease pain, lower blood pressure, and even boost the immune system.
Robin Williams
The movie, Patch Adams
In the movie, Williams own brand of humour helped fill Patch Adams
Adam Sandler
As for the Deuce Bigalow
Strangely I don't get tired of seeing Sandler's films over and over again. It's like laugh medicine that goes down so easily. Some of my favourites include:
Big Daddy
Billy Madison
Click
50 First Dates
The Waterboy
The Wedding Singer
Not only did these films make me laugh I’d appreciate the redeeming, positive messages that Sandler's goofy characters always learned from.
And though some of his other more serious roles in Punch-Drunk Love
Jim Carrey
Of course I have to mention my other time tested movie medicine in the form of Jim Carrey
Jim Carrey
Mike Myers
Mike Myers
Russell Peters
Another new favourite comedian is another Canadian, Russell Peters.
Peters has a gifted ear and made me laugh with his flawless Chinese accent and facial expressions as well as his own background of East Indian impressions. No one was spared in his comedy acts. He slipped into flawless accents of Italians, Caribbeans, Africans, Jewish and even "hidden" Canadian accents. I laughed out loud because Peters wasn't really making fun of anyone, he was just telling humorous stories of people he'd experienced. Peters allows us to enjoy laughing at ourselves and the silly things we do.
I feel Peters is a great new ambassador of laughter for the multicultural communities of Canada. Not only is he a visible minority he is also highlighting communities that are normally invisible into mainstream media. According to Wikipedia, his popularity overseas is enormous. For example in Dubai, his tickets sold at a rate of one ticket every two seconds, crashing the on-line servers and creating pandemonium at the retail outlets.
What Makes You Laugh?
So start making your emergency list of all that makes you laugh. It'll come in handy when you find yourself in a low energy state, feeling confused or lethargic. Your list will be a beacon of light waiting to re-energize you.
Maybe there are photos you've collected that make you laugh. Maybe it's your cat or dog that do silly or stupid things. Maybe it's a favourite sitcom or movie that has always made you laugh. Maybe there are jokes that have been emailed to you that made you laugh once. Make a list of what makes you laugh and print it out.
Remember everything that tickles your funny bone and treat yourself to a good belly laugh once in awhile. And if your stomach feels sore that's okay because laughter exercises ten different muscle groups. Just think, you'd have treated yourself to a great workout too!
"I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose."
Woody Allen
"Laughter is an instant vacation."
Milton Berle
"Seven days without laughter makes one weak."
Mort Walker
Related Tips:
Tip#46: What Makes You Laugh? - Part 1
Tip#678: What Makes You Laugh? – Part 2 - Grown-Ups 2
Tip#697: What Makes You Laugh? – Part 3 - Russell Peters’ Notorious
Tip#769: What Makes You Laugh? - Part 4 - They Came Together
Emmanuel Lopez
www.motivatorman.com© Emmanuel Lopez 2007
1 comment:
Hi there Emmanuel,
Hope you had a good weekend. By the way, I think you are just brilliant.
We seem to be on a similar journey. The things you write about are the themes that are foremost in my own life... the wonder that is the universe and becoming more aware of its many miracles, and transforming our daily experiences.
It's been a struggle for me as well. After spending 5 years in an isolated Tibetan Buddhist community to find myself, I came back to Toronto in 2003 to start something from nothing. The good news is that people like you and I see the potential in our difficult situations and rise to the challenge.
I'm sure you will have even greater success to come.
Carolyn
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